Today is our 21st wedding anniversary. When I think about that number it baffles me. How in the world have we already lived 21 YEARS as husband and wife? It just seems like time has passed too quickly. There’s so much we still want to do and yet 21 YEARS have already been checked off. And then, I think about the actual LIFE we’ve lived and I smile. Not because it’s been bliss . . . because marriage, and life, isn’t. We’ve felt devastating grief that rocked our souls. We’ve experienced…