The life behind the Instagram shot isn’t always as it seems. Sure, sometimes it might be. Maybe this person brought her Thanksgiving books and read them to her little one as they cuddled under their blanket and watched big brother play goalie in his early morning soccer game. Maybe he dove for the ball and even when he missed it he pumped himself back up, stayed positive, and kept at it. Maybe it was a fun family outing on a cool November morning and then they all walked hand-in-hand back to the car and happily piled…